Hi

Being brave..

by JoJo B - 2017-05-23 21:03:29

... can be quite trying when you're also working to deal with and sort through so much at once. It's understanding that you feel frustrated and scared while trying to be brave. Sometimes the best you can do is one thing at a time, then plans have a way of taking shape and starting to work in one way or another.

First, watch that stitch for infection. For signs of infection anywhere, seek prompt attention and treatment from an ER. Also if needed, can you obtain some fast, inexpensive/ temporary health insurance or public assistance of some type or make payment arrangements to get by for now? Perhaps you just need a follow-up to make sure things are working properly, and not leading to infection that can lead to other issues and more needed care (and provide reassurance).

Yes, it will settle down, in stages... incision, skin, blood vessels, nerves all fight to heal then settle down. Use over the counter pain reliever, ice packs, soft pillows to prop where needed for sleeping comfort... move gently, safely, but keep moving and keep following post-op care advice. As you help things heal, you'll feel better, and you will see that you can do this!

Perhaps a church, local clergy, senior center, or other resource can help with referrals or other suggestions that can provide assistance, help think things through, plan needed steps and how best to pursue them. You're not alone and we want the best for you, even without knowing much of your circumstances. 

There is great expertise here that may have much better advice, especially after more is learned; I'd get after any open wound or infection, work at getting a tech or physician to check out your pacer, and continue healthy habits best you can. Deep breath, rest, forge ahead... hope to hear back that you are finding help and doing better soon! 

Breathe

by Being Brave - 2017-05-24 07:26:19

Thank you both so much. Such great suggestions and comforting experience. I am happy to hear the anxiety I am going through will eventually pass and that the fears I have are "normal". I of course will stay on top of caring for my wound as it heals and also keep an eye on this stitch as well. 

Thanks for reminding me that I can appeal again! I have just felt so defeated and well, broken that I basically have given up. I dont want to go down without a fight!! 

Indeed, I have much to learn as I navigate this new existence and I am grateful I now have friends to talk to who are walking beside me. 

Many thanks!! 

Hi Being Brave......................

by Tattoo Man1 - 2017-05-24 15:40:02

.............................All these people have given fine advice...

For what its worth , may I just add my name to theirs ?

It will be OK..

And Pacemaker Club will always be there for you.

Tattoo Man

:o)

by Being Brave - 2017-05-24 16:08:50

Thank you all so much!! And I was glad to read that tattoos are ok too!! I have many and plan on many more. 

I actually feel like I can breathe a little better now knowing its all part of the process. I will take many of your suggestions and keep moving forward. Actually looking forward to having some fun in my life again! 

Again, I appreciate you all.