So Understand Jessie!

• by cottontop
• 2007-07-30 12:07:02
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I so get where you are coming from. I thought when they were young and dropping raw eggs from the fridge and pouring cooking oil all over the kitchen was going to make me crazy.What I wouldn't give for those days. I had know idea that even though they were rasied in a baptist church and all 3 had been saved .I was teaching sunday school,my husband a deacon in the church, involved in bus ministry, sang in the choir,we both worked in the sound booth. In church 3 times a week and my husband went on visitation on Tues.We did spend plently of family time together and raised the kids by the bible,we don't believe in divorce and my husband and I have been very happliy married for 31yrs. this past June.I guess what I am getting at is my 29 yr. old son is on his second dissolution and my oldest daughter who is 28 married and seperated after 6 months-her idea. Determined to have a dissolution before there 1 yr. and she manage to do that. Only after a huge wedding with all the trimmings in a church and the reception in a ball room. Designer dress and all. We are still paying that one off. I just keep wondering where did i go wrong. I sometimes think I try to be there friend first and mom second. Can a mom be quilty of loving her kids to much. After teaching them to walk,talk, ect. they grow up to be adults and we as mothers are just to sit back watch them make some of the biggest mistakes and keep our mouths shut. It should be so easy. Let's just say I pray a lot. I will add you to my prayer list. I believe all things happen for a reason. Look for the good in the bad. It's always there. With God all things are possible.

Your never alone,
cottontop