Depressed & sad

  • by bunnykin
  • 2009-03-25 12:03:05
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It's so strange how we can be so overwhelmed by sadness and depression that we actually withdraw from wanting to reach out and find solace. This was exactly how I felt since last Christmas ever since I learnt that Peter Nash was struggling with a failing heart; Although we've only met in July with Peter and Nina, we've been constantly in touch, either by phone or email. Distance was not a hindrance. However, with both our hearts giving problems bullying us to no end and as such I found not much point in creeping out of that shell to post as often as I'd like, I felt that I could not reach out as much anymore to the members here as I did before. Perhaps it's like a sympathetic reaction but now to think back, "Peter, you could be that 'live-wire' that sparked up our interest and hearts, and gave us that comfort that we all need from time to time." Nina is indeed a wonderful and supportive wife and I'm so glad we've the opportunity to know each other. I pray that she will find courage to deal with daily life hereafter...
I also hope, with passing time, I can start relating to the newer members here and will sort similar assistance and support from you once again. Please help me find that interdependence with the site again. Meanwhile, I thank you for your kindness and warmth that we share here.
bunnykin

5 Comments

Our Loss

by scadnama - 2009-03-25 03:03:41

We are all saddened by the loss of Peter. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting him, we kept in contact via PM.

We all need each other, and are here to support one another...not only in regards to pacemaker related issues, but also during these difficult times.

I pray that we all find comfort in knowing that Peter is no longer suffering. Hopefully we can relay some of his wisdom on to others.

Amanda

Loss of a friend...

by brokenheart - 2009-03-25 04:03:14

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Peter Nash. I know he was a wonderful person and helped many people. Feeling sad and deppressed is a normal part of our lives. When i lost my gramma a few years back i thought i could not go on. She was the best woman i ever met. So strong. So kind to others. She always had a kind word to say to make one feel better. She had the love of God in her heart. I know Peter is up there with her. And yes, i had my time when i didnt want to go out or talk to others...but i know that is not what she would have wanted. You never know how many people u can help with just a few kind words.

Take your time

by Blueaustralia - 2009-03-25 06:03:59

Every so often someone comes into our lives and touches us so deep that when they pass on it is hard to get used to them not being there. A couple of years ago it happened to me. I am only just getting over the loss of that special person.

Depression is something that can creep up on us for no reason and the downside of it is that we just withdraw. I have suffered from depression for a long time and am now convinced that it is what happens in our lives and how we are treated that contributes towards the illness more than anything else.

At the present time I do not feel like posting. I don't know why. Perhaps it is because a lot of the older members have faded away. Maybe my life is too busy, or I am in withdrawal about different things. But I know the wheel will turn full circle and the sun has to shine again. Store away the good memories and bring them out to enjoy when you have time to reflect. Meanwhile keep in touch, you are a special person who has come into my life and as they say: "One dorr closes and another opens." Love and God Bless

Billie

Dearest Bubbykin...

by pacergirl - 2009-03-25 09:03:04

dear, dear.... give yourself some time. Peter would not wish for any of his lady friends to feel such pain. He would probably wish for us to dress and go to a nice dinner in his honor! To see all our smiles and listen to our laughter!! Peter, dear Peter he would be so happy to know we were all banding together to send him off.

So... I think on Wednseday no matter where I might be I will have a beautiful dinner and I will raise a glass in his honor! I will dine at a fine restaurant and I will dress properly, with my finest dress and my nicest makeup and hair.... he loved pretty, bright colors! That is what I will be wearing. Would anyone care to join me? No matter where you are... just dress, dine and raise a glass to a wonderful man, who was loved by many.
Cheers, Pacergirl

bunnykin

by jessie - 2009-03-25 09:03:57

peter was a kind man. he was very fair too. i love the pictures of susan pacergirl and her husband visiting peter and nina. susan stepping into the cold waters of the atlantic. peter and susan in the picture with peter's plane. they became real pictures to me of real people. i learned so very much from him. i learned to start over if i had to. i learned to see a man who was very independant and worked with what he had and did not let it keep him down. he was also a very good looking man by the car in his youth and i certainly would have taken a second look had the time and place be right. bunnykin we all have sad days, bright days good days bad days but the thing is we are still having days. peter isn't. he would want us to live our lives and sing dance and be happy as well as grieve for our friend. he would want us to go on in whatever fashion we thought we should . live our lives. it is okay to live your life. you have permission to do that. please be kind to you. jessie

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